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When ancestral traditions clash with modern family dynamics

My grandmother's altar sits in my living room but my white husband thinks it's weird and my kids are embarrassed when friends come over and I don't know if I'm honoring her or just clinging to something that doesn't fit my life anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The practices that once connected you to your lineage now feel like sources of division in your current home.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ancestor veneration across traditions?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.