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How previous reproductive choices can complicate new relationships

My husband had a vasectomy reversal so we could try for children together but it failed and now he feels guilty that his past decision is affecting our future.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Past definitive reproductive decisions can create power imbalances and guilt when new partnerships inspire different desires.

Worth thinking about

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