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When you feel no maternal instinct toward having children

My husband keeps saying we should try for a baby next year but I feel nothing when I imagine holding our child and this terrifies me because I thought maternal instinct was supposed to be automatic.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The absence of expected biological or emotional responses to parenthood creates profound self-doubt about one's capacity for love and connection.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The decision to become a parent?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.