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Scenario

When your partner monitors your private complaints

My husband reads my text messages to my sister about our marriage problems and says if I loved him I would not need to complain about him to other people.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The need to be witnessed in our struggles collides with loyalty demands that would leave us entirely alone with our pain.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The letters and journals you leave?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.