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When your partner monitors your private complaints

My husband reads my text messages to my sister about our marriage problems and says if I loved him I would not need to complain about him to other people.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The need to be witnessed in our struggles collides with loyalty demands that would leave us entirely alone with our pain.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The letters and journals you leave?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.