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Scenario

How to handle grandparents who undermine but demand access

My mother criticizes everything I do as a parent but expects me to bring the grandchildren over constantly and I feel trapped.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Authority and privilege can persist even when competence and respect have disappeared.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian filial piety — examined?”

Peri

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