My mother died last month and everyone keeps telling me to remember the good times but honestly most of my memories are of her criticism and I feel guilty for not missing her more.
More people experience this than they realize.
Society's scripts for mourning do not account for the complexity of loving someone who caused deep harm.
“Where Are You with Forgiving parents?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.