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When parents and children disagree about charitable priorities

My mother expects me to keep giving money to our extended family back in Pakistan but I want to focus on helping refugees here and she says I'm forgetting where I come from.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Cultural identity and geographical loyalty create tension when charitable impulses point in different directions.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islamic sadaqah jariyah — the ongoing gift?”

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