My mother had three miscarriages before having me and she keeps saying I should be grateful I can get pregnant at all and I feel guilty for grieving.
More people experience this than they realize.
Previous generations' experiences with loss, often unprocessed, can be weaponized against current grief rather than offering understanding.
“Where Are You with Pregnancy loss miscarriage and infant death?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.