My mother has always favored my younger sister and now that Mom needs care my sister expects me to do most of the work even though she was always the golden child and I am tired of getting the responsibility without ever having gotten the love.
More people experience this than they realize.
Historical family inequities can create resentment that complicates present responsibilities, making duty feel like continued punishment for never being enough.
“Where Are You with Family governance and wealth succession?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.