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Scenario

When childhood favoritism affects adult caregiving dynamics

My mother has always favored my younger sister and now that Mom needs care my sister expects me to do most of the work even though she was always the golden child and I am tired of getting the responsibility without ever having gotten the love.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Historical family inequities can create resentment that complicates present responsibilities, making duty feel like continued punishment for never being enough.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family governance and wealth succession?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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