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Scenario

How to handle grandparents who undermine your financial values

My mother keeps buying my kids expensive gifts I specifically asked her not to buy because I want them to understand the value of money, but she says I am depriving them of joy and now my kids prefer her house.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Conflicting approaches to money and child-rearing across generations create a power struggle where love, control, and values intersect.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and parenting — financial pressure and class?”

Peri

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