My mother wants me to burn incense for my father every day like she does but I don't believe in any of that and saying no feels like I'm dishonoring him even though he's been gone for three years.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love for the deceased collides with authenticity to your own spiritual understanding.
“Where Are You with Ancestor veneration across traditions?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.