My mother was emotionally absent and I've overcompensated by being so involved in my daughter's life that she's 16 and can't make any decisions without calling me first.
More people experience this than they realize.
A parent's efforts to heal from neglect have swung toward enmeshment, inhibiting their child's development of autonomy.
“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.