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When neighbors ask for help before relationship is established

My next door neighbor asked me to watch his house while he travels but I barely know him and feel weird about having that responsibility for someone who is basically a stranger.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Requests for mutual aid can feel premature when they outpace the natural development of trust and connection between neighbors.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Neighborhood and place-based belonging?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.