My parents never fought in front of us but also never showed affection and now I don't know how to have conflict or intimacy in my own marriage
More people experience this than they realize.
You're realizing that growing up without models for healthy emotional expression left you unprepared for the full range of feelings that intimate relationships require.
“Where Are You with Intergenerational trauma — the legacy you break?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.