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Scenario

How to navigate different expectations around wedding celebrations

My parents saved for years to help pay for my wedding but my fiancé and I want a small ceremony and to use the money for a house down payment instead and I think they feel hurt that we are rejecting their vision of our special day.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Generational differences in values can make generous gifts feel like impositions, requiring negotiation between gratitude and autonomy.

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Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family governance and wealth succession?”

Peri

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