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Why Some Relationship Fights Never Get Resolved

My partner and I fight about the same thing over and over and we both know exactly what the other person is going to say before they say it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Repetitive conflicts often signal that the surface issue is not the real issue, but both people feel trapped in familiar roles.

Ideas that help explain it
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