My Puerto Rican mother raised me to be proud but my skin is light enough that people tell me I don't look Latina and I feel like I'm failing at being myself.
More people experience this than they realize.
External validation of identity authenticity can undermine internal confidence in one's legitimate belonging.
“Where Are You with The hyphenated identity and belonging?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.