Periagoge
Scenario

When you discover love was a deliberate practice

My sister and I are cleaning out our mother's house and we keep finding notes she wrote to herself that say things like remember to tell the girls you love them and we realize she had to remind herself to show us affection.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Finding evidence that someone had to work to love us can be more devastating than discovering they didn't love us at all.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The letters and journals you leave?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.