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When you discover love was a deliberate practice

My sister and I are cleaning out our mother's house and we keep finding notes she wrote to herself that say things like remember to tell the girls you love them and we realize she had to remind herself to show us affection.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Finding evidence that someone had to work to love us can be more devastating than discovering they didn't love us at all.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The letters and journals you leave?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.