Periagoge
Scenario

When memorial charity doesn't match the person's actual character

My sister died and people want to make donations in her memory but she was actually pretty selfish in life and it feels dishonest to pretend otherwise.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Social expectations around honoring the dead conflict with honest assessment of their moral legacy.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islamic sadaqah jariyah — the ongoing gift?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.