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When your adult child uses you as an emotional dumping ground

My son calls me every day to complain about his job, his girlfriend, his apartment, but when I try to give advice he gets angry and says I do not understand his generation.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The parent becomes a repository for pain they cannot fix, trapped between the impulse to solve and the reality that some burdens belong to their bearer.

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