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Scenario

When your child died being heroic but you wish they had been selfish

My son died saving someone else's life and everyone calls him a hero but I would rather have my coward alive than their hero dead.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Public celebration of the child's sacrifice conflicts with the parent's primitive wish for their survival above all else.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief of a child — the unnatural loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.