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When your child tries to buy friendship

My son has been giving away his lunch money and toys to other kids and when I asked why he said it's so they'll like him.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent recognizes their child's transactional approach to relationships and must address both the behavior and the underlying insecurity.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Middle childhood 7-12 — school peers identity?”

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