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Scenario

How to cope with missing your pre-baby life

My son is four months old and I love him desperately but I miss my old life and feel guilty for wanting time alone and wonder if that makes me selfish.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The profound love for a child can coexist with grief for one's former autonomy, creating guilt about natural human needs for independence.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Birth and early bonding?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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