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How to know when parental support becomes enablement

My son is thirty-five and still lives in our basement and has no job and no plan and I do not know if helping him is actually hurting him at this point.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The impulse to protect can conflict with the need to promote growth, creating paralysis about when love requires withdrawal of comfort.

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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.