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Scenario

When your child's spouse controls family access

My son married someone I cannot stand who is rude to me and excludes me from family decisions and I have to pretend everything is fine to maintain access to my grandchildren.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The painful accommodation of being marginalized in your own family structure to preserve whatever relationship remains possible.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Launching adult children?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.