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When helping an addicted child feels like enabling

My son struggles with addiction and I don't know whether helping him with rent enables him or keeps him safe.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love expresses itself in contradictory ways when safety and growth seem to require opposite responses.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined question — what do I want to leave??”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.