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When your adult child's identity challenges everything you thought you knew

My son told me last week that he is transgender and wants to start transitioning and I love him but I am grieving the daughter I thought I had and feel terrible for feeling sad about something that makes him happy.

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A parent confronts the complex emotions of simultaneous love and loss when their child's authentic self differs from long-held expectations.

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