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When stepchildren refuse to accept you as family

My stepson calls me by my first name after eight years and his father says I should not take it personally but it breaks my heart every time.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Blended families often struggle with competing definitions of belonging, leaving stepparents in emotional limbo between intimacy and distance.

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