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Scenario

When your child's physical resemblance to your abuser triggers fear responses

My teenage son reminds me of my abusive father in his build and mannerisms and I know it's not fair but I find myself afraid of him even though he's never been violent.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent's trauma responses are activated by their child's innocent physical similarities to their abuser, creating distance in the relationship.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trauma-informed parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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