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Scenario

When your teenager says they hate you and you spiral into parental guilt

My teenager told me they hate me after I said no to something small and I know they don't mean it but I laid awake all night replaying every mistake I made raising them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between a parent's deep love and their child's developmental need for separation creates wounds that feel personal but aren't.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The parent's inner life — what children bring up?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.