Periagoge
Scenario

How to handle family obligations toward those who harmed you

My uncle sexually abused me as a child and now that he is old and sick my family expects me to help care for him in the name of ubuntu.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The principle of universal care is demanding forgiveness and service from trauma survivors.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African ubuntu and intergenerational responsibility?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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