My white husband thinks I'm too hard on our kids when I make them do math worksheets on vacation but he doesn't understand what it's like to be the only Asian kid who wasn't good at math.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your parenting carries the weight of your own childhood wounds that your partner cannot fully comprehend.
“Where Are You with Tiger parenting — East Asian model examined?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.