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When Your Partner's Emotions Overwhelm Your System

My wife says I shut down whenever she cries and she is right but her tears make me feel like I am drowning.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

One person's emotional expression can trigger another's survival responses, creating disconnection when connection is most needed.

Ideas that help explain it
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