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When spouses have conflicting eldercare responsibilities

My wife wants to move across the country to take care of her aging parents but my career is here and my parents are here and I do not know how to choose between our competing family obligations.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Multiple family loyalties can create impossible geographic and emotional choices with no clear moral hierarchy to guide decisions.

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