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Scenario

How to navigate obligations to in-laws who don't fully accept you

My wife's family expects us to contribute equally to their ceremonies and needs but they have never welcomed me as a true family member.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Financial obligations are being demanded without the corresponding social inclusion that ubuntu promises.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African ubuntu and intergenerational responsibility?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.