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When your child bonds with your ex's new partner

Our 5-year-old has started calling my ex-wife's new girlfriend mommy and it makes me feel replaced in a way I was not prepared for.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A child's capacity to love new people can trigger unexpected grief in the original parent who fears being forgotten or displaced.

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