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Scenario

How to enforce custody agreements when your ex plays victim

Our custody agreement says alternating holidays but my ex-husband books family vacations during my Christmas weeks and then guilts me for breaking up the family if I object.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When someone consistently violates agreements while positioning themselves as the injured party, seeking fairness becomes a exhausting emotional labyrinth.

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Rabia
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“Where Are You with Co-parenting after separation?”

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