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How to enforce custody agreements when your ex plays victim

Our custody agreement says alternating holidays but my ex-husband books family vacations during my Christmas weeks and then guilts me for breaking up the family if I object.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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When someone consistently violates agreements while positioning themselves as the injured party, seeking fairness becomes a exhausting emotional labyrinth.

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