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How to handle donor relationship boundaries as children grow

Our sperm donor wants more contact with our twins and my husband is threatened but I think the kids deserve to know where they came from.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The clean categories of donor and parent blur when children's needs and adult comfort zones conflict.

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