Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings disagree about honoring family legacy

My brother and I inherited our grandmother's house and we both want to keep it in the family, but we disagree about almost everything - whether to renovate or preserve, whether to use it for family gatherings or rent it out, whether to maintain the garden she loved or make it more practical. Every conversation reveals how differently we remember her and what we think honoring her means.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are learning that honoring the same person can take forms that seem incompatible.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The perennial philosophy — shared mystical core across traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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