My brother and I inherited responsibility for our family's religious obligations after our parents died but we have completely different relationships to these traditions and every holiday and ritual becomes a negotiation where we're both trying to honor our parents while being true to ourselves and it's exhausting.
More people experience this than they realize.
Honoring the dead while remaining true to your own spiritual path requires finding ways to hold both reverence and authenticity simultaneously.
“Where Are You with Agnosticism — the honest position?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.