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How to support friends through spiritual crises without losing yourself

My closest friend is going through a dark night of the soul and keeps asking me for spiritual advice I don't feel qualified to give, but she doesn't want professional help and I'm scared I'm saying the wrong things. Our friendship feels heavy and one-sided and I don't know how to help without losing myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Love compels us toward others' darkness, but without wisdom about our own limits, compassion can become a form of drowning together.

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