My closest friend started following a spiritual teacher who asks for complete devotion and she's becoming someone I don't recognize and when I express concern she says I'm being negative and blocking her growth.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love and genuine concern can look like resistance when someone is walking a path that changes who they are becoming.
“Where Are You with Korean and East Asian shamanism?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.