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Scenario

When couples practice tantric spirituality at different paces

My partner and I have been exploring Kashmiri Shaivism together but we're experiencing the practices completely differently - they're having profound non-dual recognitions while I feel like I'm just going through the motions, and it's creating this unspoken tension where we can't share what should be our most intimate spiritual journey. We both want to support each other but I'm starting to feel like maybe I'm blocking their progress or maybe they're just better at this than I am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people seeking the same ultimate reality are discovering that their paths toward it diverge in ways that challenge both their spiritual practice and their relationship.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hindu tantra and non-dual traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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