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Scenario

When spiritual direction relationships reach an impasse over contemplative approaches

My spiritual director and I have been working together for three years, and lately our sessions feel like we're speaking different languages about what contemplative prayer actually is. She's pushing me toward more structured practices when I feel called to something more apophatic, and I'm starting to wonder if we're fundamentally incompatible or if this tension is part of the work itself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people committed to the same mystical path discover their understandings of that path may be irreconcilably different.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Christian mysticism — the contemplative tradition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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