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Scenario

When couples discover hidden spiritual expectations

My spouse grew up atheist and I was raised Catholic and we thought we had figured out how to respect each other's beliefs but now that we're planning our wedding we keep discovering assumptions and expectations we never talked about. Every conversation about the ceremony becomes this landmine field of things that matter deeply to one of us and mean nothing to the other.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart's deepest longings often remain unspoken until they become unavoidable.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Islam — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.