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When teens adopt beliefs that conflict with family values

My teenage daughter has started attending a church with her girlfriend's family and she's coming home with ideas about purity and sin that contradict everything we've tried to teach her about self-acceptance and love. My wife thinks we should forbid it but I remember how my parents' religious control backfired and I don't know what the right approach is.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to protect our children from harmful beliefs can become the very authoritarianism we sought to save them from.

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