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When one friend's crisis dominates your spiritual practice group

My two closest friends and I have been meeting monthly for spiritual direction together for five years, but lately our sessions feel more like therapy for the one of us going through a difficult divorce and the rest of us don't know how to reclaim our shared contemplative practice without abandoning her when she needs us most.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The tension between pastoral care and spiritual discipline tests whether sacred friendship can hold both individual need and collective practice.

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