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Scenario

When spouses choose different spiritual communities

My wife and I started attending different churches after years of going together because we needed different things spiritually but now we don't know how to share what we're learning with each other and our kids are confused about why Mom and Dad aren't worshipping together anymore. We're both growing in ways that feel important but we're growing apart and I don't know if that's necessary or tragic.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people discover that their individual spiritual needs may require separate paths, challenging the assumption that shared faith means shared practice.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ritual — why it matters and how it works?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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