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When couples lose faith at different speeds after tragedy

My wife and I used to pray together every night but after we lost the baby she stopped believing and I'm holding onto faith by a thread and we both feel alone even when we're lying right next to each other. We don't know how to comfort each other when we're grieving so differently.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Grief reveals that even the most intimate bonds cannot guarantee we will suffer in the same way or find the same comfort.

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