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Why contemplative retreats make ordinary life feel false

During extended silent retreats I feel most authentically myself, but when I return to normal life I feel like I'm putting on a costume and playing a role that isn't really me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Sustained contemplative practice reveals the constructed nature of social identity, creating dissonance with conventional lifestyle demands.

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