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Scenario

Why contemplative retreats make ordinary life feel false

During extended silent retreats I feel most authentically myself, but when I return to normal life I feel like I'm putting on a costume and playing a role that isn't really me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sustained contemplative practice reveals the constructed nature of social identity, creating dissonance with conventional lifestyle demands.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Christian mysticism — the contemplative tradition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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